In December 2025, the Franco-Indian couple flew down to Kerala in a warm homecoming with an expanded guest list for a two-day wedding celebration against the backdrop of the Kumarakom backwaters. One early Paris morning, the bride and groom joined me on Zoom to take me through their dinner-in-the-desert proposal, Raja Ravi Varma-inspired outfits and decor, the female priestess who officiated the rituals, and a ceremonial send-off in a fisherman’s canoe.
A (surprisingly) grand proposal
Lucien: I wanted to propose to Natasha at this new hotel up in the Himalayas. But we ended up fighting because it was January and she was coming to India to escape the cold. I cancelled that and found Suryagarh Jaisalmer. I had planned a dinner in the desert, but when we arrived they told me they were fully booked. I spoke to the manager about the proposal, and he requested all the hotel guests if they could have dinner early, and everyone agreed.
Natasha: The staff were constantly staring at us and whispering amongst themselves. I knew there was something weird happening. Later, we were at the front of the hotel when a man in complete Rajasthani attire started beating the drum as we began walking. A light came on, and there was a singer in the background, and a beautiful dinner set up with candles all around. The proposal was a culture shock for Lucien because he thought it was going to be a chill dinner. But the hotel went all out—it was so grand, even he was surprised.
The couple during their sangeet
Lucien: Six staff members were watching us, waiting for me to go down on one knee, but it’s not French tradition to do that, so we just sat together and I proposed.
Natasha: I was never really a marriage girl, so I had never envisioned a ring. But Lucien got me a honeycomb ring from Hermès. It feels more punk, which is more my vibe. It’s also a French tradition for the family to gift the daughter-in-law a ring; mine is a Mughal-inspired one currently in the making.
Backwaters, houseboats, and an old house by the lake
Natasha: As children, we went to Kumarakom in the winters. I have fond memories of swimming in the canals and going fishing with my dad. I wanted to return to that.
Lucien: We chose Kumarakom Lake Resort because of its traditional Kerala-style architecture, which I’m obsessed with. We preferred to work with something already beautiful instead of building structures and decorating them heavily. All my friends are architects, and they really appreciated the venue.
Natasha: We had the mehendi, the sangeet, the sadya, and the reception at the resort. From a design perspective, we took inspiration from old Kerala weddings, including my grandmother’s, and also referred to Raja Ravi Varma’s paintings, especially with the colours and flowers, to create a style that wasn’t too influenced by Bollywood.
For the wedding ceremony, we took a houseboat across the lake to the old Vembanad House. All my grandmothers before me were married at an old house we used to have. The family property was sold in the ’80s, but I wanted to recreate that. It felt more intimate and reminded me of my grandma’s home.